Thanks to Bow friends in a time of grief
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I just want to thank all my Bowsite friends who supported me during the past two days during my wife's sudden and fatal illness. I didn't ask, word just got around. You guys are awesome.
We were together 23 years, raised a daughter, built a cabin, shared great times together. Though she didn't hunt, she was the most supportive hunting wife a guy could ask for. She was also a gourmet game and fish chef, and loved to look at my mounts of big animals. It was good, and ended too quickly. Fortunately she went quickly and we were able to share goodbyes.
Thank you again to everyone who was there for me. This is so damned hard. You know who you are and I cannot thank you enough. Bless you all.
Lou, like I said in my txt, let me know if you need anything. I’m only a couple miles away
Thoughts and prayers
Your friend
Brad
Sorry for your loss Jaquomo. My family sends thoughts and prayers your way.
I am very sorry to hear this. You and your family have my deepest sympathies. I cannot imagine the grief you all are suffering and I will keep you in my prayers.
Sorry for your loss, she sounds like a great woman.
God give you strength, Lou. Cherish the time you had together and know you'll be together again some day. Wish we could have met her.
Sorry for your loss, I have been married 25 years and can't even begin to imagine what you are going thru. Sending prayers. Kevin
Lou, I am so sorry for your loss. You’re in my thoughts and prayers. If there’s anything I can do, just let me know. Rob
Lou, So sorry to hear.....our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mark
Jaquomo, so sorry to hear this now. My heart hurts for you. Praying for you during this monumental moment.
Lou, I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. God'!s grace to you during this time.
Wow....
Lou, I had no idea. I am very sad to hear this. I can't even imagine the grief you're experiencing. You have my condolences and my word that I will pray for you during this incredibly difficult time.
My deepest condolences Lou. Have strength brother. Prayers sent.
Lou, I did not know of this until now. I'll pray for you man. You holler if you need anything at all and, May God Bless you with peace through this time.
Lou, so sorry to hear. Bowsite grieves with you.
Sorry for your loss. She sounds like a great gal.
May God's peace give you strength and hope.
Mik
Jaquomo so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers sent, during this time of grief, for you and your family.
Lou, I'm sorry to hear of Gail's passing. I'm glad you were able to be there for her when she needed you the most. As I let you know, you have a great group of friends who will be there for you in a moments notice. My best to you my friend.
Lou, this is the first I've heard. So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers....
I hadn't heard. I am very sorry for your loss, I can't imagine what you are going through. Our prayers are with you.
Lou- I am so sorry to hear this news. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Wishing you the best through this toughest time Jaq.
That news sucks, thoughts and prayers.
Damn, Lou......that horrible news. So sorry for your loss. Just know I'm thinking of you, amigo!
God bless my friend. So Sorry to hear this news. Hunter
Sorry to hear this, Prayer for you and the family.
So sorry Lou.
Lou, I haven't the words. Only that you and yours are in our thoughts and prayers. So sorry for your loss. Just know we're all here for you.
I'm sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Lou I was completely unaware of this?
Please know that my prayers are with you and your family.
Dear Lord we pray that you share Your amazing Grace on Lou and his family in this time of need we ask that You and Your Son Jesus give his heart all the comfort he needs and his family as well. In Your Sons name we pray, Amen
We're so sorry for your loss.
Lou sorry for your loss. Prayers sent from WY You need anything let me know .
So sorry for your loss Lou.
So sad. You are in my prayers.
I'm so very sorry Lou- my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. If you need anything at all please let me know.
Lou, so sorry for your loss! You've always said great things about your wife when she came up in your posts here...Hang in there man!
Thoughts and prayers Lou. I can't even imagine. Like others have said, if there's anything you need, just holler. Ron
Lou, so sorry to hear of this as well. Anything I can do to help, just let me know as well.
Lou, so very sorry to hear of you loss. You are right, you have many friends here, far more than you know I'm sure; as you've been a pivotal part of Bowsite, for longer than I can remember. You're the kind of guy every one one of us wishes we knew more of. You're a real stand up guy, you've got a great sense of humor, and you're always helping out others.
Please know that we all are here for you. Most of us will never have the pleasure of meeting you in person, but we've all been blessed by knowing you, even if only virtually.
Thanks, folks. I really appreciate it. I believe in karma and in the power of positive vibes and prayers. When the doctors told me Sunday night that recovery was highly unlikely, I prayed for a merciful resolution rather than a long, drawn out suffering for both of us. Those prayers were answered.
I read tonight that everyone in a marriage has a 50-50 chance of outliving a spouse. Never thought of it that way. Usually it's the wife who carries on. This time it's me.
Thank you all again. My grieving and acceptance process is just starting but great to know so many friends have my back.
My condolences to you and your family on your loss, take care of yourself. JP
So sorry to hear this news, Lou. May God grant you strength and comfort in your sorrow.
I'm so sorry for your loss, praying for you.
I'm so sorry to hear about this I have not checked bowsite for a few days
Very sorry to hear about your wife Lou. You have my sympathies.
I am so sorry to hear this, my thoughts are with you and your family and I will pray for you. Terrible news.
Sorry for your loss Lou just checked, in you will be in my prayers tonight.
Love you brother. We're here for you. Our prayers are with you. Talk soon
Lou, Prayer sent. So sorry to hear this.
My condolences Lou. You are in my family's prayers.
Prayers for you and your family.
So sorry for your loss very tough thing to handle
My condolences to you and your family. This has to be one of the most difficult challenges we get handed in life. May God be with you in this dark time.
My heart goes out to you. I can't imagine the pain you're going through, but you sound strong. I'm truly so sorry for your loss.
So sorry to hear this Lou. Prayers sent.
Hey Lou, at times like these, words cannot adequately express the sympathy we feel. Just know we are praying for you and yours. Just find a way to get through one day at a time. May the Lord bless your recovery. FM
Thoughts and prayers Lou. Can't imagine your grief. Its sounds like during the time you both lived together was a blessing and filled with love. I have yet to experience such joy. Awesome that you had the experiences with her. Hang in there.
Lou, Sorry for your loss, can't imagine the pain of losing my wife.
My condolences. So sorry for your loss.
I'm sorry to hear this sir. My condolences to you and yours
Lou, man I’m so sorry. To a great woman and a great man.
God Bless you Lou. You are in my prayers.
Just seen this.sorry for your loss bud.
Very sorry to hear. Our thoughts are with you.
Very sorry for your loss Lou.
Lou, I just read this and I can't imagine your sorrow. You have our deepest and heart felt sympathies for you and your family. Embrace your daughter and surround yourself with friends and loved ones. We are all here for you, and the Williams family will hold you and your family close in prayer! God Bless and lots of love from Arizona!
So sorry for your loss Lou. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lou, Prayers sent for you and your family in this very trying time.
My heart felt prayers and sorrow for you, God Bless.
Sorry! God Bless her soul.
Lou- I'm so sorry to hear this. There really aren't any good words that I know for this......Heart breaking. May God grant you peace and healing in this difficult time.
Matt
Just saw this and was shocked, to say the least. I am so very sad and sorry for your loss.
I had the pleasure of speaking with your wife several times last year when I was up scouting/hunting elk and you were out. We had some very fun, interesting discussions and I was really looking forward to meeting her in person.
You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Lou,
Just saw this. I am so sorry for your loss. You have a tremendous support group in the Bowsite community.
Prayers from southeast PA.
May the Lord Jesus help you through these hard time & help relieve the pain that you & your family are having. Prayers for you & your family.
I haven't been on Bowsite in a couple days. Wow. All I can say Lou is you have my condolences and I'm very sorry for the loss of your wife.
Sorry for your loss. May God and your friends give you comfort.
Very sad. Lou, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
May the Lord grant you and your family strength and light through this dark time. Prayers to you and your family
So sorry, have no words. Praying for you & the family.
Darrall
Very surprised to hear this. So sorry for your loss Jaq. May God give her rest and strengthen you in this time of grief. God bless.
I'm so sorry to hear this Lou, I can only imagine how difficult it has been for you. I'll be keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. May God grant you peace and comfort. We're all here for you if you need anything or if there is anything we can do. God bless.
Sad to hear. Sorry for your loss.
Very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers with you and your family.
"I prayed for a merciful resolution rather than a long, drawn out suffering for both of us"
That is all that any of us can ask. Sorry for your wife's passing. I hope that you and your daughter are able to breathe again (if not now, then sometime in the near future).
My sincere condolences. I'm very sorry for your loss. Prayers sent for you and your family.
It is hard to imagine the emotions that you and your daughter must be feeling in your time of loss. My sincerest condolences to you Lou.
Love hugs and prayers to you, Lou!! May it be of some comfort to know that you and your family are in our thoughts.
I'm just seeing this as well. So sorry to hear of this Jaq. My sincere condolences.
Sorry for your loss. If this community was only about hunting I think it would have failed years ago. Lots of good people in here and when things happen to those good people we fell it.
I hope the days ahead get a little easier for you and your family. I can't imagine the loss.
Deepest sympathies from Massachusetts. Never met you but feel I almost know you from your very insightful posts. God bless.
Sorry for your loss. I’ll be praying for you and your daughter.
Lou, I had no idea. I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what this feels like.
You and your Family will be in my prayers.
Best Wishes, Jeff
Wow - very sorry for your loss Lou. Prayers to you and your family!
So sorry for your loss Lou. Hang in there.
Oh mercy had not seen anything about this till now. Prayers to you and the family Lou and hopefully you will find peace in knowing she didn't suffer.
Thoughts and prayers Lou!
So sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in our prayers.
Sorry for your tremendous loss, Lou. Prayers to you and your family. Bryan
Sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm sorry to hear about you loss. Stay strong! You are in our thoughts and prayers.
You are definitely in my thoughts and prayers.
Lou, I have no words for this other than I am truly sorry for this life changing loss. May God bless you as you grieve, then heal.
Lou, so sorry to read of your loss. How quickly things can change. Kurt.
Lou, Sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in our prayers.
So sorry to hear about this great loss in your life, Lou.
Time does soften pain, but time will pass so, so slowly for now. Take the comfort you can from the support and love of family and friends.
Very sorry for your loss Lou. Tough times, and I hope you find peace with your good memories of shared times together. You're in my prayers.
So sorry for your loss, my condolences.
The bow hunting fraternity feels your pain and is sending thoughts and prayers. Hang in there.
Very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers.
Very sorry to hear of your loss. I will put you and your family in my prayers.
I am very sorry to hear this. May your memories be sweet and her soul in heaven.
Lou, my deepest sympathies. May god be with you and your family in this time.
So sorry for you loss Lou. You have my deepest condolences.
Like this life, abscence is only fleeting. May God grant you and your daughter His peace and wisdom in this time.
Happier times
Happier times
Thank you all so much for the PMs, the texts and calls, and the incredible outpouring here. I'm trying to answer everyone as best I can. Today is a hard day. It will get better. I'm sorting her winter coats to donate to a battered women's shelter. She would want that. She gave way more than she took in this life.
Thank you all again. It means a lot.
Very sorry to hear of your loss Lou. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Lou, I'm sorry for your loss. May the good lord help bring you and your family peace in your hearts in this time of grief. Prayers are on there way from my family to yours, J
So sorry for your loss Lou-thoughts are with you.
Thoughts and prayers for you. So sorry for your loss, may God be with you in these hard times.
My most sincere condolences to you and your family Lou.
Wow, so sorry Lou. I don't know you at all, but feel like I do from this wonderful forum. So sorry for you loss. Adam
Lou, so sorry to hear about this! God bless you & your family!
ElkNut/Paul
Sorry to hear about this! I know how you're feeling right now, as I lost my wife of 42 years in early June this year after a 3 1/2 month bout with an aggressive brain tumor. It takes time, but the good Lord is there for you just like he is for all of us and you'll get on with life like I am.
Thou we have never met you have always seemed to be a person I would like to share a hunt. Your description of your wife speaks volumes reminds me of I would describe mine .Deepest condolences from Tn. Lewis
So sorry to hear of your loss Lou.
May God comfort you.
Very sorry, Lou. Lana and myself will be praying for you. Just last night we were discussing that it was nice we got to meet your wife at KBA. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Very sad to hear of this.
So sorry to hear of this Lou.
Whew...no idea. Praying for you and your daughter. So sorry brother.
Shockingly sad and grievous news. It probably means little coming from a total stranger, but I am genuinely sorry for your loss and will indeed pray for comfort and peace for you.
I am very sorry to hear about your wife. She sounds like she was a great lady.
Deepest and most sincere condolences for you. More prayers sent.
May God's Peace be with You! So sorry Lou.
Sorry for your loss. Keeping you I my thoughts and prayers.
You and your family are in our hearts and minds. I'm at a loss for words, but all your friends will be there for you. Sincere condolences on your loss
So sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
How ironic I was thinking of you today and not 15 minutes later I see this thread. My prayers go out to you at this time God Bless!
ROGER AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 57 YEARS. I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AS YOU GRIEVE THE LOSS OF YOUR BELOVED WIFE. LAURIE
I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through....my condolences.
My deepest sympathies Lou. My the good Lord grant you peace and comfort in this troubled time!!
Very Very sorry.....I too can't begin to imagine what you are going through......
Lou,
Condolences for your loss, can't imagine what you and your family are going through.
My condolences Lou, I'm very sorry for your wife's passing.
So sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. Mark
Oh Lord Lou, so sorry to hear this. You both will be our prayers tonight.
Oh my God, Very sad news indeed.
Dear God, please embrace Lou and his family as you welcome his beloved wife and soul mate into your grace. Amen
Terrible news Jaq. So sorry to hear. Always remember the good times as you deal with these tough times to come.
Wow! I just got back out of the woods. Sorry to hear of your tragic loss. Prayers to you and the family.
So sorry for your loss. Words can't minimize you sorrow, but the Bowsite family does care. Praying for you!
On 11/04/2015 I lost my loving wife of 47 yrs to a rare, horrible brain disease. From onset to the end was 6 terrifying weeks. This wasn't the game plan I planned on.... I still am dealing with bouts of depression. Surround yourself with friends, loved ones and prayer. May God help you through this difficult time.
TenRingi.....prayers out to you also for your loss.
Much love to you and those close to you. It is a strange thing to find myself genuinely grieving for you and your daughter, knowing you only through years of your posts on Bowsite and the occasional PM, but I am heartbroken to hear of this.
On 11/04/2015 I lost my loving wife of 47 yrs to a rare, horrible brain disease. From onset to the end was 6 terrifying weeks. This wasn't the game plan I planned on.... I still am dealing with bouts of depression. Surround yourself with friends, loved ones and prayer. May God help you through this difficult time.
I shocked to read this and filled with sorrow at your loss. Thanks for sharing the picture- lovely lady and you two look happy. Remember those times. Greg
Just read this, so sorry for your loss. Remember the great memories..........
Just terrible to wake up this morning and find out about this Lou. I am glad I found your thread.
Prayers from my home to yours.
Good luck and stay strong Lou,
Robb
Sad to hear of your loss Lou. Prayers of comfort for you and your family.
Sorry to hear about your loss, Lou. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I lost my first wife over 5 years ago. She was 30 years old, and had a history of seizures. I thought we would grow old together, but sadly she had one she never came out of. After the initial shock wore off, the grief and despair sunk in. Surround yourself with family and friends. Remember the good times and memories made. It will get easier with time, but you will never forget her. Everyday I forced myself to continue on for my two young children. Just remember life goes on. The sun will rise, the sun will set...the tide comes in, and goes back to the sea. In this same way you will continue on. May you find peace and comfort, and know you have friends here who have your back....and more importantly, ears to listen, and shoulders to cry upon.
Shoot! I was out of state hunting and didn't know this. Very, very sorry for your loss Lou! My prayers are with you.
Whoa man, heavy stuff. Very sorry to hear about your loss.
So sorry. Deepest sympathy and prayers from an unmet friend.
Sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
WOW! Can't even imagine.............................................prayers sent from PA!
Lou, that's absolutely terrible to hear. I'm so sorry to hear about your and your daughter's loss.
So sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family.
Lou, I have been in deer camp and somewhat out of touch. Mad Trapper and I both just learned of your loss, and we both wanted to offer our condolences.....
Difficult to read so sorry for your loss. Thoughts are with you in this trying time.
Sorry for your loss, prayers sent.
Thank you all again for the thoughts and prayers. I can feel the power of prayer and it helps tremendously. Last night I finally got some sleep since Sunday and will force myself to eat solid food today. Mornings are the worst. It will get better after I finally get all the "official" death stuff behind me.
This wasn't part of our plan either, but I have to trust that there is a plan and a path forward. I will find it eventually.
Thank you all. The PMs and emails are very comforting too. It means so much to me.
So sorry to hear Lou. Thoughts and prayers for you.
So sorry for you and daughter. Keep smiling remember the good times. Depression can be overwhelming. Don’t hold it in cry when you need to and talk about it. Prayers foryour family from mine.
So sorry to read this Lou!!
Adding to the prayers sent. Wish I had something for ya......
Lou. Gale always had a smile and a big hug for me. Great person and woman and our remembrance of her will not be forgotten. We are close so stop by.
Paul and Tricia
So sorry for you and your daughter’s loss, Lou! Thoughts and prayers to you.
Lou,
I am so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers from my family.
Rick
Lou, I'm returning from AK today. My son, Joe, and I were hunting up there. Lots of ups and downs. We discussed how in hunting and in life, everything can change "just like that", either for the good or the bad. Then we returned to camp and got message of Gail's death. Just like that. Let me know if I can do anything at all, or just talk.
Terrible news, so sorry for your loss Lou. My thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this difficult time. Paul
I am sorry to hear this Lou, my thoughts are with you.
Lou, Sorry for your unimaginable loss, prayers form down South.
Oh no Lou So incredibly sorry...
I'm so sorry for your loss.
My deepest and most sincere condolences for you
Very sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers, Lou
Bless you Lou and you WILL find that path forward with the guidance of God. Prayers are reigning down on you and the support you have is what you deserve for being the couple that you were.
Lou, so sorry to hear about your loss. Get out and go hunting - it'll help you reflect and heal.
Prayers for you and your family.
I am very sorry for your loss. Happy you were able to share your goodbyes. It is even harder when you don,t have the chance.
So sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the pain and grief you faced. Thoughts and prayers brother . . .
Wow, I just saw this. I'm very sorry to hear your news. Thoughts and prayers sent to you from KY.
Just now seeing this sad news. Sincere condolences and prayers for peace and comfort. Try not to isolate yourself, which would be the tendency of a lot of us, lean on friends and family.
Im also just seeing this sad news. Im so sorry for your loss Lou. My prayers are with you. Day by day, and it will get better. TopGun is a prefect example of that.
Sorry Lou. God bless you and your family.
I am so sorry Lou. I just found out about this and feel terrible for you. Prayers for you Lou.
Lou, Condolences to you and your family.
A sudden loss of a loved one is very difficult. Stay strong and stay well.
Prayers sent for you and your family
I just read this and Im so sorry for you loss Lou.
Sorry is all I can say - JJ
Deeply sorry for your loss... And my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.. god bless
Just caught wind of this Lou! So sorry to hear, you have the thoughts and prayers from me and my wife!
My sincerest condolences!! God Bless!!
Lou: I haven't been on Bowsite for a bit so I didn't know about Gail's passing. You made us all aware how much you were blessed having her in your life! One never knows just what to say in a time like this --- I just pray God holds you tightest when your days seem darkest. Sending you the biggest of hugs! God bless ... --- Tom (Lv2hnt) in Arizona
My condolences to you and your family.
Sorry for your loss Lou. Can’t imagine. If you need anything let me know
sorry to hear prayers and condolences Lou , God Bless you and your Family! Tom.
So sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences to you and your family.
So sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences to you and your family.
Thanks, and thanks to all who keep checking on me. I'm dealing with it, just a ton of stuff to navigate after that many years together and no time to prepare for her passing.
Many have encouraged me to go hunting but my head and heart weren't in it until today. Then it hit me that it would be what she wanted me to do. Regardless of whether it was thanksgiving or her birthday, she always encouraged me to stay on the hunt, to keep after it and not give up. So next week I'll go after muleys for 7 days and the neighbors will feed the doggies. I'll dedicate my time in the woods to her, to everything she made me accomplish in every aspect of life.
That is a wise and good thing, Lou. Some may not understand it, but most of us do.
Just remember that you're not going there to escape the pain or forget what has happened. But rather to let your heart, spirit and mind adjust and come to terms with the new normal in your life. And if you do forget for a moment, there's no guilt or betrayal in that either.
The music is still there, but the rhythm has changed and it will be a while before you can keep in step with it.
Have a good hunt and I really hope that you find what you're looking for.
Well said Ambush! Best of luck Lou. Hope you find some peace while getting out.
So sorry for your loss Lou, my deepest condolences.
Several years ago I lost my girlfriend 3 days before Christmas. After the necessities were taken care of I went to my hunting camp to be by myself for a few days. Some people didn't understand, but it was good therapy. Go hunting, it will feel different but it will be good...
Right after my dad passed, I went on a 10 day mule deer hunt with a good friend. It was very good to be out in the woods, and I completely understand!
God Bless Lou! You are still in our prayers!
Lou, my apologies for such a late reply. I've been off the grid in deer camp the past two weeks and just saw your thread.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.
I am so sorry, no words, Praying for you sir.
I'm sorry for your loss. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Hunting will be good for you. She will talk to you there.
Lou, very sorry to hear this news. This summer, I picked up a copy of Trad Bowhunter before getting on a flight because I saw your article. I am sorry about your wife's passing and appreciate your contribution to hunting and to Bowsite. Happy Jack
That is awesome Lou! This will be a hunt that you will always cherish and you will be rewarded more than you can imagine. I think success will come in a form that most of us don't always recognize. Glad you are doing well buddy and still thinking about you.
Yep. Lou +
Success doesnt come from what you can do, success is overcoming what you thought you couldnt
Hope to see you on Dec 8th at Paul's
Lou - just seeing this now, very sorry to hear about your wife's passing.
I just saw this, Prayers for you from Idaho!
I was away from the Bowsite for quite a while and only check infrequently. Just saw this thread and am so sorry for your loss, Lou. Many times in our lives, the pieces just don't add up and we have to trust God in his sovereign wisdom and grace for comfort to sustain us. Prayers for you and all the family involved. I hope your mulie hunt is a catharsis that cleases your mind and reorients your heart. God bless.......
I can't imagine this type of loss. I wish you the best of luck.
Glad to hear you're up for getting out there again. The woods have helped me gain perspective over some serious losses in recent years. Best of luck on your hunt, and as midwest said, she will talk to you there...
Lou good luck! Remember Gail will be looking down and be smiling knowing your out doing what you like.